NOVEMBER 2025
- Jessica Stefanski

- Nov 30, 2025
- 3 min read
Most people are not yet conscious enough to recognize how their subconscious behavioral patterns shape their actions, especially towards someone with spiritual depth and presence. This lack of awareness can leave them more open to interference and hijacking.
This is why even someone you know and love can eventually betray you. The other side is highly skilled at identifying loopholes and exploiting emotional wounds as points of entry. For this reason, individuals at this level must be deliberate and precise about who they allow into their inner circle.
Many who believe they understand who she is or the work required to maintain her position are out of their depth. Her evolution and mission are not meant to be validated by those who haven’t begun their own.
Society has benefited and profited from the objectification and sexuality of women. And still, we vilify women for daring to own and liberate what others have exploited.
You are afraid she may misuse it. Yet, it’s already been misused. Not by her, by you. By a society and world that intentionally forgot that she was sacred.
They sowed doubt, unaware it would never contain you. In a world sustained by fractured confidence, your flowering is an act of defiance. The sacred garden you once cultivated in another has become the quiet revolution.
This inward weight narrows the contours of living, restricting possibility from within.
Abuse is not merely inflicted upon the body or mind; it is a calculated erosion of dignity. Its aftermath teaches the survivor to house shame internally, redirecting blame away from the perpetrator and onto oneself.
And if you’re honest with yourself you will acknowledge her liberation makes you uncomfortable because you can’t control it. That it’s on her terms, not yours.
Her love heals. Her leadership steadies. Her spirit ignites. Her creativity, resilience, fairness, wisdom, healing, expression, loyalty, and sensuality are the medicine.
You’re going to have to forgive them, too.
The ascent demands lessons that can only be found in the descent. In the pain we endure, we learn to rise and know joy, for true grit cannot be discovered at the summit. From our lowest points, battered and tested, we rise with courage, moving boldly toward the limitless horizon of our becoming.
Most often, those who ask you to dim your fire for the lukewarm comfort of the world around you are not your allies. They are asking you to fade. Consider what kind of person, what inherited fears and fragile paradigms, would make such a request.
Societal structures that normalize abuse and discredit survivors only perpetuate this harm, reinforcing a culture of silence and burial of truth. Instead of exposure and freedom, survivors are pressured to hide what they endured.
She had already outlived the worst long before you ever knew her name. What comes after is mere echo, at times a fleeting entertainment, and your most precise efforts to wound rebound upon you.
Hope changes everything. The most powerful act of love is igniting passion in another through our intention, how we live, our words, and our presence—reminding them that life still holds magic. As pain fades and possibility returns, witnessing the transformation in their eyes becomes the greatest reward and an irresistible calling, in whatever form it arrives. We are given the privilege of introducing another to what it looks like to truly live again.
True justice and healing begin only when responsibility is returned to the perpetrator and survivors are given the freedom to speak, be seen, and reclaim their lives.
Forgive, yet know you are under no obligation to return. Whether it takes an instant or many, realizing your worth is yours to claim. Refuse to let this truth take a lifetime. Step into your light. The Universe is guiding you toward something greater.
Step aside. Relinquish the weight of judgment and surrender to the Creator, the one true Architect and ultimate authority. Rest in the arms of the Divine, fully held and protected, knowing your part is done. Move forward unburdened, in sanctuary and at peace.




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